And as to the bar fight, you have a SH3 Commander option "Simulate reliastic crew transfers" ticked. You can untick it any moment if you don't wish to be surprised by your men being killed, transfered or... I'm not gonna tell what.

If curious, check it yourself. That's real fun and - believe me - one of the most challenging options in SH3 Commander. :rotfl: When you have your favourite officer, you've awarded him all the possible medals, badges, flowers and papers, and suddenly, out of nowhere... he chooses to return to mummy and you loose him.