I've been married for 14 years. Got two munchkins as a result. Relationship is good and not boring. It does take work. Got to keep in mind that people do not change. If she is a certain way while you date, she will be the same after marriage. Don't think you'll change someone, it just does not happen. I certainly do not miss the dating game and bar hopping. And like everything else, you got to give a little to get a little.
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