I am thinking this is not a coincidence?
You mentioned in your post that your wife hates your computer.
Could it be that she is trying to tell you something? Like maybe she feels she is having to compete with your gaming activities.
If so, it's time to devote some time to the wife.
Take a night off, skipper, and go do something with your gal.
If it helps, pretend you've got some shore leave.
(If she knows a few phrases in French, even better!)
It's an added responsibility for us married kaleuns.
Sink merchants, yes, but don't sink the relationship.