Good luck, Kapitan, and respect! That step shows courage, if you really carry it out.
If I would have had children, I would have given it a serious thought to leave germany, too. Just no idea where to go.
listen around for greencard lotteries, i mean somebody who won a card but does not want it. Ebay! Can't comment on these being fakes or not, though, so be careful. In the past twenty years, my father knew at five times of colleagues or their relatives who won a greencard without even wanting it! True.