i installed all the mods you told me (yes i had 1.3)
and it didnt work,
so im gonna do a step by step of how im trying to solve it
in case any of you guys see if i do something wrong
deinstall silent hunter 4
install again (english language)
test run it (quick mission) (works)
install patch 1.3 (freshly downloaded from the ubisoft webiste) (vs 1.03.0000)
ok test run it (war patrol) set high graphic options and realism all except no outside camera and no map contact update. (works)
put the JSGME icon in the SH4 folder (run it) (mod folder created)
generating snapshot
putting all mods that where mentioned above by momo on the MODS folder
enableing them in the order sugested
test running (realism 100) (graphics high)
and yes it worked
ok atlast
thanks for the help guys
good hunting