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HMCS · 10-23-07, 01:46 AM

There's nothing inherently wrong with being single- but if you think that having a regular woman is necessary for happiness (I think it's a result, not a prerequisite of happiness), then this is what I advise:

Go out and either:

1. Live through your passions. A happy, busy person is more likely to draw positive attention to oneself, and that means the opposite sex. Chicks dig confidence and positive energy. It's also a huge turn-off to the ones who are bad for you. If you come from a place of insecurity and lonliness, the only women you will connect with will be those at that emotional level. And that's never really a good thing; or a long-term solution.

OR....

2. Go out and make TONS of $$$. Women are not drawn to Hugh Hefner for his...sparkling personality. He's actually somewhat banal. But he has cash. Many, many women dig cash. And power.

10-23-07, 01:46 AM	#14
HMCS Sonar Guy Join Date: May 2005 Location: Squaresville, daddy-O. Posts: 394 Downloads: 186 Uploads: 0	There's nothing inherently wrong with being single- but if you think that having a regular woman is necessary for happiness (I think it's a result, not a prerequisite of happiness), then this is what I advise: Go out and either: 1. Live through your passions. A happy, busy person is more likely to draw positive attention to oneself, and that means the opposite sex. Chicks dig confidence and positive energy. It's also a huge turn-off to the ones who are bad for you. If you come from a place of insecurity and lonliness, the only women you will connect with will be those at that emotional level. And that's never really a good thing; or a long-term solution. OR.... 2. Go out and make TONS of $$$. Women are not drawn to Hugh Hefner for his...sparkling personality. He's actually somewhat banal. But he has cash. Many, many women dig cash. And power. __________________ "Turning enemy ships into marine habitat since 1986!" Mods Loaded:TMO 2.2, RSRDC, MaxOptics, Strategic Map Symbols, Stop The Shouting OR: RFB, RSRDC, Maxoptics, SCAF, Strategic Map Symbols and the sanity-saving "stop the shouting".