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Originally Posted by Mikey_Wolf
Well, thanks for all the replies to this guys I have had a lot of time to chew this over and since my original post, I have took a shine to somebody. She works in the Library of my college, lol, I want to ask her just to grab a cup of tea and a chat. I don't know what my chances of success are, I usually dress pretty smartly to go to college. I don't turn up like any old rag-bag so that's got to work in my favour.
I don't know, I reckon I'll give it a try and see how I get on. She says no, well, I'm back to square one again. Annoying but hey - I'm not the first and won't be the last that is for darn sure.
I'm expecting a no, so if I get a yes, it'll be a bonus.
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Do not go in expecting a NO. Standing there befuddled and waiting on a NO will be detected by the young lady. Confidence but not overbearing is the plan! Going for a cup of tea and some conversation sounds like a good plan. Just remember about the claming up part. She is person like you with interests and such. Do not clam up, talk about what you like and do with your time. She will chime in. You do the same. Before you know it and being she is in the library working, just imagine the help she can provide in finding old dusty books on the uboat. Good way to expand on the subject matter and WW2 as a whole. Good way to have conversation. I would hope she is working in the library because of her interest in histories and such. Feel her out (figure of speech here
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