Don't worry, once they hit their early 30's they start getting ancy, and start worring about their biological clocks and what not . . . afraid that they will die alone . . . then they will be more apt to a long-term relationship (maybe even marriage). However, the problem with that is . . . the "cream of the crop" will have already been taken off the market
. . . well . . . you can't have everything
Whatever you do . . . don't settle. Find someone who you want to be with, and who wants to be with you (not what they make you become). They say that who you choose to wed, or be your
hetero-life partner determine 90% of how happy you will be with the rest of yourt life.