I'm for realism, myself... 'course, I'm with the guys above, wishing that wind/current would have an effect, along with the ability to call in for a tender or some other assistance.
There's been a few times when I'm heading back to port. I've got fuel to get there, plus a nice reserve if I need to dive or replot a few times. I'm sweating, though, since I can't remember exactly when my base is overrun by Jap's, and I'm going to have to divert to a different, more distant base... that I don't have enough diesel to reach.
But if I can't get all that, then I still want realism... 'cause it's my fault if I didn't leave enough reserve in. No matter how big that reserve needed to be
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