I knew it would be something simple.... guess I will be peeling in the galley for alot longer than normal, tell Fritz Ill be right there.
The "music circle" in the audio options needs to be unchecked but the music volume needs to be audible. I had it set to the opposite thinking "music" meant gramaphone music and the knob represented the ingame music. Oh well problem solved and I have lost my Uber Bilge Rat title in the process!
Thanks Again Gang.
I will try to find more inane technical problems due to R-Tardedness to keep the more L33T of our fleet busy during that quiet time between Patrols !!