Using things like ur for you are or m8 for mate, it's fine for mobile phones but I hate seeing it in forums, there's a keyboard at your fingertips, try using it. (not you personally)
Just a pet hate of mine
'So, which year is the 'proper one' to accept the upgrade?'
All I know is I refused the upgrade In July 43 and accepted it in Nov 43 and I have so far got my career as far as May 44