All I really want is higher resolution 3D. That's it.

If my 1280x1024 native resolution looked like the 1024x768 ones, I'd be high as a kite.
As for the effects. I turned off the glare.. it made my 3d look worse. I also usually don't use Post Processing because it makes certain things much darker - such as my boat. Even though with Post Processing on, the framerate goes up.