Well it's in fact the second point what causes normally the most of the trouble. Children are 99% of the times assigned to women -rightfully as I can see now that I have two, 22 and 5 months old, and see that I would be unable to do 1% of what my wife does- but that implies here also the use of the family house and a certain amount of money each month for maintenance of the children. That leaves a man who has short incomings nearly in the most absolute poverty, because houses have skyrocketed here in the last years and if he not only has to rent one but also give away some money monthly, it is not infrequent to see men loosing their job and becoming homeless.
