SH3 has had a last Patch released - 1.4b.
SH3 + 1.4b = Still buggy.
(but better)
Now supermods.......
Top of the list at the moment is GWX. The Grey Wolves Expansion is a standalone addition to SH3 + 1.4b and vastly improves the base game. GWX has added graphics, sounds & realism. This mod is by far the most encompassing mod available, if it could be fixed/improved/corrected then it has been.
NYGM (current version 2.4, I think) aimed at reproducing realism.
WAC - War Ace Campaign, don't know too much about this one. A mixture of graphics, sounds and realism.
Without covering old ground too much, there are sticky threads in the MODS section for all supermods.
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