No there are other female Kaleuns here so its not an all male domain
The Avatars change by your post count
Of course you can always make a donation to Subsim and have your own - as mine is
http://www.subsim.com/radioroom/showthread.php?t=81920
All explained there
Even if you dont have your own avatar there are different ones for the fairer sex than us rough men :rotfl: