Okay, I'm also totally up with the idea of the family there
That's actually kind of what I should have been getting at - I think with the kids that I've known to be the good ones and those who were the problematic ones, the difference wasn't uniform or dress code, but the way they were brought up by their parents. Authority or not, I think it's a fact that family should have and do have a power to raise their children that any other element in society can. So yea, for every accusation we tack onto the school system, I think there should be a question of 'where are the parents looking?'