I am the one who asked for "marriage help", my thanks to the whole community as I had excellent inputs.
Well, Rose, my two cents for you and your friend.
As young friend of a young man, you can't work like you were his mother or his psychologist; simply you haven't the age, the role, the experience and the moral authority to do so.
The best thing you can do for him, on my point of wiew, is to show that even his old lifestyle and friends have their appeal.
Don't search a direct, open comparison between the two groups, as you easyly could be the looser; simply give him the feeling that he's loosing lot of good things.
Time will say what will be his choice.
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