I think that if you ask him to stop partying, or stop hanging around with those people, or even tell him you are worried about him, he will despise you. There's no real way to say those things without sounding pathetic to him. I would just let it go. You will drift apart, but in a few years time when he is more mature, and getting completely hammered has lost its novelty, you may end up very good friends once more.
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