I was browsing the SH3 review at SimHQ when I come upon this:
"The manual also does not tell you that if there is no Officer on watch you will not be notified of ships spotted"
http://www.simhq.com/_naval/naval_016a.html
Now I think I know why my watch crew wasn't notifying me of contacts and I'd come out of TC being blasted by a warship!
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