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Old 06-01-06, 09:06 AM   #5
jumpy
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I would say NO m8.
Simply due to the fact that:
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i split up with her a few months ago and now i regret it and she knows it, were young but unhappy
You must have done that for a reason and as you are both young....
If the BIG question is on your mind, then think about getting back together as a couple for a while before you even consider shackling yourself to a ball and chain for the rest of your life.
Many ppl see being asked to marry as something really major and not at all to be taken lightly (I'm not suggesting this is otherwise for you..), so from that point of view it's probably best to not just spring the question on her considering you have been separated for a couple of months.
Another thing to think about, don't take this the wrong way; have you seriously thought about what it is that you miss about her? If you have been feeling down lately is that because you miss her or just the companionship of a relationship? Difficult questions I know, but you have to ask yourself this truthfully when you think about what it is you are contemplating doing.

Personally I have never been able to stay 'friends' with an ex, it's just too hard to deal with on an even keel. Better to make a clean break and not let the feelings drag on and on. I suspect that this is what you are experiencing now...
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