I don't know if this is the reason for your deck crew problems, but if you frequently ALT-TAB out of the game then their behavior will get faulty. If you want to change to desktop it's better to first save the game, ALT-TAB to desktop and then reload the game.
Else, I don't play at such a high realism so I don't know, but I know that the sonar man will not give you distances easily based on his listening.
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