Summing up:
i use Speech Recognition_MiTons_NewUI_Editon_v0.4.1_english (works awesome)
the mic was cathing up the headphones sound and pausing the game when some sounds came up (not all sounds, not always the same sounds, depended a lot on my headset volume -im using DFX program so more volume ment more pausing-)
Did some testing to rule out other issues, and identified that as the issue.
whent to
Speech Recognition_MiTons_NewUI_Editon_v0.4.1_english
data/sound/speech
1.
opened SHSpeech_Commands.xml
deleted this lines
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<!-- Time compression / implemented via script-->
<order><!-- pause/resume game -->
<phrase>pause game</phrase>
<phrase>resume game</phrase>
<commandText>Pause_game</commandText>
</order>
<order><!--real time-->
<phrase>real time </phrase>
<phrase>reset tc</phrase>
<commandText>Time_compr_normal</commandText>
</order>
<order><!--tc increase-->
<phrase>increase tc</phrase>
<commandText>Time_compr_increase</commandText>
</order>
<order><!-- tc decrease -->
<phrase>decrease tc</phrase>
<phrase>reduce tc</phrase>
<commandText>Time_compr_reduce</commandText>
</order>
<order><!-- Time compression %1 times -->
<phrase>tc %1 time</phrase>
<phrase>tc %1 times</phrase>
<phrase>tc %1</phrase>
<commandText param1="%1">Time_compr</commandText>
</order>
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2.
opened SHSpeech_Grammar.xml
deleted this lines
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<!-- Time compression -->
<item>pause game</item>
<item>resume game</item>
<item>real time</item>
<item>reset tc</item>
<item>increase tc</item>
<item>decrease tc</item>
<item>reduce tc</item>
<item><!-- Time compression %1 times -->
<item>tc</item>
<item><ruleref uri="#TC"/></item>
<item repeat="0-1">
<one-of>
<item>time</item>
<item>times</item>
</one-of>
</item>
</item>
<item><!-- Time compression X times -->
<item>tc</item>
<one-of>
<item>fast</item>
<item>travel speed</item>
<item>warp speed</item>
<item>max travel speed</item>
</one-of>
</item>
<item><!-- show mission objectives-->
show mission objectives
</item>
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just not sure about this lines on grammar
<item><!-- show mission objectives-->
show mission objectives
</item>
but the mod seems to work very much ok, and no annoying game pausing at all.
After all i didn't need to pause my game with voice comms n.n
Hope it helps somebody as it did to me.