Subsim GT is taking a route for the worse. A lot of respect has gone down the drain and justified so in some cases IMHO. It's sad to see good members leaving because of that but I also don't have a proper solution to that problem.
I can only appeal to the members to stay fair to one another and to put people who grind their gears on the ignore list or ignore them manually. We will never all agree on everything and I often find myself typing a response to some of the nonsense I sometimes read here but then I press the x on the top right corner because it's just not worth it.