My games been far far more stable since I did the 4gb switch on the exe, and got my mods in a good order. Back with my old rig, it would crash every time I added more than a handfull of basic mods.
Current active mod list;
Websters New Orders Bar Menu
RSRDC_SH15_V550
RSRDC_V5xx_Patch1
Crew Rank Fix - RSRDC
3000 Yard Bearing Tool (1920x)
Magnified Hud Dials for v1.5_Medium
Improved Stock Environment_v3
ISE New clouds+Waves #1
ISE Realistic Colors #2
blue_mouse_cursor
DBSM_Music_1_0_4
Enable Type XVIII Career Start
Snorkel Beta 1 with Type XXI conversion
LexBind 1.0 (see sig)
LexSensor 0.6 (A Vision Mod WIP)
Webster's Missing Voices
Hires_lightmaps
Hires_lightmaps_UBOAT
Dark Recognitionmanual
FJB Camera Mod for Stock
USS Blackfin Skin
KILL MARKERS - USS GATO HI-RES
And there are a few more I wouldnt mind adding, if i can get versions that dont overlap the mods I have.