Though I haven't used it I think it is the mod "
sobers dead is dead V3 NewUIs_TDC_7_5_0 SH5"
http://www.subsim.com/radioroom//dow...o=file&id=4332
Adjusts the menu so that you have to Continue the game after dieing rather than loading a previous save (?).
I'm sure someone else will weigh-in here soon to confirm.