My step mother is 86, has had both breast removed, course frail and uses a walker. I go there almost weekly now to deal with her and my father, both with numerous health issues. I have to do their grocery shopping when there and have to get my step mother Depends underwear. I made the mistake of asking her
do you need any Depends diapers..?
I'm her meanest voice
"I don't wear diapers, they're underwear"
