Dude. Just love the Wife!
Remember why you decided She was to be the one to spend the rest of your life with?
Remember how you snagged her?
Just give her that few moments like you did then.
It's not black magic and it's not that hard.
She ain't killed you yet. And I stress the yet!
Look her dead in the eyes and tell her...
"I'm an ass at times, I know that. But I Love you with all my heart and I need your help to be a better Mate."
Then go from there. Keep an open mind and realize you nor her are perfect.
(You and I are near perfect but We can't tell them that!

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The sexting thing AVG mentioned? Be careful about that!
I do Computer work for friends and found some of my sexting to my Wife on thier systems!!

Seems she was bragging abit. (With good cause I must add

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But still?