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Originally Posted by Red October1984
Very true.
I can't wait to see what's in store because it has to be better than High School.  |
I guarantee you it will.
As teenagers we have many wrong priorities, have difficulty telling right from wrong, and tend to find security in a group which I will designate as a "pack". Then the "packs" become rivals and so on. The "pack" mentality fades away as teenagers approach adulthood, which also brings some maturity.
I'm guessing you are probably a free thinker, and refuse to adopt some silly behaviour code just to be accepted into a "pack", hence you were left out.
The best advice I can give you right now is to join a group of people dedicated to a hobby or activity that you like. People will be collectively focused on the goal, which brings out team spirit, and in time, friendships. By doing this, you'll hone your social skills. By spending time with these people, you'll become more satisfied with your life and yourself. And will feel and show less anxiety when the next girl comes along.
Since English is not my native language, sometimes I have difficulty in conveying my thoughts the right way. So I will resort to a little trick....
Are you a Trekkie? I am.
Even if you're not, i'd suggest you watch two Star Trek TNG episodes if you can:
- Pen Pals - S02E15
- Booby Trap - S03E06 -- pay special attention to the dialogue between Geordi and Guinan