Either way it is a tearjerker.
Both methods (pardon my bluntness) are horrid, and most likely you know what is going on as it happens.
Those people though. I mean everyone concentrates on the kids, but thier pain is gone, the poor parents though
That will stay with them forever, no matter what, as ireparable trauma to thier psyche.
The dead are free, the living still feel, and my condolences on the parents and family. Genuinely