I just don't get the dance club thing
Pasties or bikini tops why bother going in the first place? Why would any one pay money to watch a woman dance in a bikini?
Nude dancing I can understand (and appreciate). But, yeah, I am going to give money to a woman who would normally have nothing to do with me, just so I can watch her dance is clothing that I can see for free at any beach near a college. At least with a college student, you may (just may) have a chance).
Maybe it is the skill of the dance?
Not getting it.
All though my military time, guys were dragging me to jiggle joints. All I could think was "Dude, you are paying tons of money for that beer, throwing money (sometimes literally) at a woman who will have
nothing to do with you" Then they bitch because they are horny and broke.
I would rather "invest" my money on dating women. I still won't get anything

But at least I am not throwing money away.