Never surrender .. errr ... never give up! True love can happen anytime. I'm not talkin about mere attraction. I'm talkin about lifetime satisfaction. I'm on my second and final marriage. Met her when I was 47. This is her second and final marriage, as well.
Compatibility. We're alike in many ways. And being 'madly' in love for 3 yrs (and counting) doesn't hurt.
Ok, I know what yer sayin' ... nobody who hasn't found theirs yet wants those who have rubbing it in their face. My apologies if this came across that way but it wasn't my point. My point is, the path to your true love is likely littered with broken hearts ... your and theirs. Frankly, I had a friend once tell me I was lucky to have had so many (he was still lookin' for his first ... then). I was bout to give up what I was beginning to brand as a unique kind of crazy (the better they looked the more devious and cruel they seemed) when I met my wife. She was about to give it up, as well (gee, is there an honest guy in the bunch?).
We met online ... not in a pub or party. Lived just across the airport from another. 47 years to find my soulmate. Twas worth it.