Moin KZS,
don't know if ist works, but i few proposals.
For the Equipment try this Order:
Equipment_Upgrades_Fix_v1_4_byTheBeast
Equipment_Upgrades_Fix_v1_4_Patch_1
#Equipment_Upgrades_Fix_v1_4_Patch_1_HotFix
Eqp_Upgrades_fix_v1.4 dates by sober Patch V2
Then, if I remember correctly, you have to put the FX Update before the NewUI and the IRAI after.
The Crew Mod, don't know exactly, but the Mighty Fine most i saw before NewUI.
Water Disturbence don't need when using the actual IRAI 37.
And at least, for what is the Personal Commands mod and be sure it works with the NewUI, don't know if it's better to enable after.
Only ideas and thoughts, no entitlement to be successful
Hope you get it work.
Kalle