SH3 for me...if this is any help fedone, my mod list, which starts with GWX GOLD - then..
GWX - Captain America's Officer Icons
GWX - Lite Harbor Traffic
GWX - No Medals on Crew
GWX - Open Hatch Mod
Real Depth Charge
Rbs1_SH4_Effects_GWX_30_71
DBSM for SH3
Dowly's NeinHerrKaleu Mod
Extreme Wet Weather Gear Mod
Waterstream+Exhaust Combi V2.3 for GWX3
Flags_enlighten
Das Boot Clothes
GWX - 16km Atmosphere
Haunting Atlantic Wind
LifeBoats&Debris_v4
Hitman Optics for GWX3 v.1
.. choosing mods is a personal matter. you'll have to try stuff out, keeping in mind your computers capability for example. but you can always come back here for help if you are stuck
