You can't see yourself in the game - the player/commander simply doesn't exist as a viewable object. Everyone you see standing on the bridge is a member of your crew. But you *can* get the entire watch crew in leather u-boat uniforms (either grey or black) using Rap0r's Uniforms V2.0.
Thread here:
http://www.subsim.com/radioroom/show...r%27s+uniforms
Download available here:
http://www.gamefront.com/files/user/Rapt0r56