I guess I'm not totally "anti-facefook"; I'm not a "hater" so to speak. Maybe I'm just paranoid about their services.

It's set off my virus software one too many times. Even though I had the "block" on, I was amazed how many times I had to re- turn it on again
If I were to sign up again, I'd be really picky about who I friended.
On a side note, I'm glad to hear that you found more of your family. Have you found any other "long/lost people?"
I found people from elementary school, that I hadn't seen since I moved in 82.