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Originally Posted by Skybird
I take grim pleasure from rebouncing in a somewhat Klingon attitude every stranger trying to hug and kiss me. While it may be social convention developed over long time in Southern America and mediterranean countries, it certainly is no social convention in Middle and Northern Europe.
I already feel pissed when walking through an Ikea market and every sign and poster there adresses me with "Du" instead of "Sie". That may be convention in Sweden. But in Germany, it simply is crude and chumming up.
But as I see it there is a massive trend for infantilisation of social conventions and media.
As a German comedian, I think, put it some time ago, today the mother does not go to a parents meeting at her son's school and introduces herself with "Guten Abend, ich bin Frau Meier", but she trills: " Hallöchen allerseits, ich bin die Mutti vom kleinen Linus!"
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You know, I was wondering about that.
When I was growing up in Germany, It was all about formality. After I left I heard that Germans were becoming "lockerer". More relaxed.
But I was also wondering wether the courtesies and formalities had gone out the window. Or is this only confined to the younger generation nowadays?
I would hazard a guess that the older generation would still address with: "Guten Abend, Herr Maier hier".