try running Dbgview before you start a game and through the crash. Then either post the log here or send it to TDW, though I have not seen him on the board for a bit.
There are couple of other options to try before giving up though:
1) make sure you patched the MO to the latest patch. That is a possible major reason for CTD.
2) install Antilag as a copy-paste, not as a mod (just copy both files into the root folder and edit the antilag.cfg file)
3) Original Map Colors the way they are right now affect the MO, but not the NewUI, which overwrites the maps again.
4) remember that IRAI v1 is a test version and works
ONLY on single units, will not work on the campaign, you need to install 0.3 version for now.
actually, as I was typing - the 4) should be first you need to try