One of my older cousins he was this girl for a good while and he proposed to her privately she turned him down which really burned him because it seemed pretty clear she was wanting to get married.The down side to a more public proposal is if she says no you get burned in front of people(or if she recants a few days later) that is worse than if it was private.
I think public proposals are kind of trendy right now but I am betting that in some cases it may have been agreed to privately before hand and it is some what a show in some cases.
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