[Stealhead]

Like I said it depends on the woman's personality one with weaker will would feel pressure a stronger willed woman would not or she might say yes in front of everyone and recant later heard of this happening many times not saying this is going to be the case with your friends.

In the end at least for me proposing and the vows all that jazz that was the easy part to say the least six seven months later after you have you first few disagreements then it is real.

This reminds me some years back some guy in NYC lost the engagement ring when he was about to propose so he had to hold off and find it.He figured that he had some how tossed it in the trash by accident of course it was trash day so this dude went to the damn depot for the garbage trucks and searched each one that had yet to be dumped I think it took him a day or two the trash guys where nice enough to leave a pile on the side for him to go through seeing as they could not just leave full trucks waiting to be searched.In the end the guy found the engagement ring and the woman did said yes she must have had little doubt if the man had just gone though several tons of trash to find it he must have really meant it most of that proposal was free and unplanned but it got the point across.

As long as you dont point a gun to her head(or your head) I guess it does not really matter.