As Steve said, you're looking at a heavy mod load with a fair bit of redundancy...
I'd start by disabling a few of the larger mods, such as: Racerboy SH4 Effects For SH3 2.03 and Aces' Super Pens 4 GWX3 Version.
Second, I'd go with FK's advice and ditch anything related to FM Interiors, such as: Conning Tower Open Hatch 0.93 Food and CT FM NI Fix For MaGui F. (No need having fixes if you're not even running the base mod).
Third, while not likely causing your current issue, you've got some sound redundancies between Thomsens Sound Pack 3.0 and Spirit Of Machines. The one is likely overwriting part of the other so you're basically copying extra files which are not actually in use.
Try disabling the larger mods one at a time and then run a test patrol, save and try reloading.
Good luck!
