Ok, after spending the last 4 hours of uninstalling sh5, doing a fresh install and rebuilt my mod soup to be nearly exact to stoianm's...
Did the tutorial mission first i nstock and i have installed all of these in port. Now to begin the first mission, ill try the "western approaches" mission first and see if i still get that CTD when i enter the patrol area..

fingers crossed no more CTD's!!!
Magnum_Opus_v0_0_1
FX_Update_0_0_16_2_ByTheDarkWraith
A Fistful of Emblems v1.51
IRAI_0_0_30_ByTheDarkWraith
Equipment_Upgrades_Fix_1_2_byTheBeast
stoianm upgrade available mod compatible a fistfull of emblems&Equipment_Upgrades_Fix_1_0_byTheBeast
AirTorpedoes
TheDarkWraith_DC_Water_Disturbances_v2_0_SH5
U-boat Historical Specifications 1.7 for TDW Mods
NewUIs_TDC_6_5_1_ByTheDarkWraith
NewUIs_TDC_6_5_1_New_radio_messages_German
NewUIs_TDC_6_5_1_No_Hydrophone_On_Surface_No_Aircr aft_Spotting
Church's Compass Dials Mod v2.2 - Option Two
Church's NavMap v1.0 - Illyustrator's Version
Church's SHV 1.01 Keyboard Commands v1.1
Enhanced FunelSmoke_by HanSolo78
Kriegsmarine Grid Map for MO and TDW UIs by stoianm
Nauticalwolf's_Torpedo_Textures_v1.2
NOZAURIO'S SKIN (Standar No Emblem) v-1.0.0
Old Style Explosions V1.1
Shadow Improvement Mod
NewUIs_TDC_6_x_x_Progress Bar_by_Torpedo v2
SOAN - ship data
SteelViking's Sky Banding Mod
TDC Graphics by Naights v1.0
TDW Round Fire Button v2 by Torpedo
Torpedo Splash
Window_Lights_Redone_V1
Trevally Automated Scripts v0.5
Trevally TDC Help v2
Icebergs v2.4
Lite Campaign with Ice
Naights Submarine Textures (internal) V1.1
nVidia missing lights
Stormys DBSM SH5 v1.3 Basemod
Stormys DBSM SH5 v1.3 optional -6db damped Sonarguy
Stormys DBSM SH5 v1.3 optional NavMap babelling
Stormys DBSM SH5 v1.3 optional remaining orig sounds converted to 22Khz
Stormys DBSM SH5 v1.3 additional crew sounds beta6
Stormys DBSM SH5 v1.3 optional louder engine sounds
DBSM_Music_1_0_4
Unterseeboot II SFX
Dynamic Environment SH5 Basemod (realistic version) V2.1
Dynamic Environment SH5 Atlantic Floor V2.1
Dynamic Environment SH5 Sleet For Winter Campaigns V2.1
Dynamic Environment SH5 Sounds V2.1
Dynamic Environment SH5 Undersea (temperate and polar) V2.1
Dynamic Environment SH5 Waves (hurricane version) V2.1
Dynamic Environmental SH5 Shallow Waters V2.1
stoianm key commands