When you have the CD, use a program like PowerISO or similar to create an ISO image of the cd. Then make the relevant screens in D-Fend look like this:
The reason the abandonware rip you downloaded crashes for you is because it comes without the video files for the cutscenes, and as such you need to disable those in the main menu. Of course, using the original CD is much better. The cutscenes are half the fun.