Say nice twice... didnt work, say sternly twice... didnt work, hit once.
But you got to use the right force. Should be very unpleasant, a stinging feeling, not that much pain. You slap'em, not hit them with a fist. But you shouldn't damage the child, we want to teach them something, not show them the other side.
The best raised children will be those, who have both parents thinking like this. So the child doesn't go: I'll report you to social services, since both will deny having hit the child. And a slap leaves no marks.
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Oh, and God forbid teachers can say or do anything to a child,
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True true, in every class there's some idiot who wont stop bothering everyone and no-one can do anything about it. I know if a teacher hits my child, I'll go there and ask what happened and if it was justified I'll go home and slap him/her myself.