Quote:
Originally Posted by CaptainHaplo
Don't "try", just enjoy life until you find that person who you can accept fully, and who does the same with you.
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That is sound advice for anyone, regardless of gender, when it comes to relationships.
And it works both ways - some people find another person, then twist themselves all out of shape to be the person the other person wants. Some people find another person and try to "fix" the other person until he/she is what they want. I was in a relationship with a "fixer" for a long time, way too long. NEVER AGAIN. Especially now that I've been around a while longer. I know who I am, and I'm happy with it. I'm not perfect, and I'm sure I've still got some things to learn... but I'm not gonna wake up tomorrow and do a u-turn.
And given the age range of potential companions, guys who
still have major "issues" that are problematic for me at "our" age? They can work those out on their own time, I got better things to do.
