I just asked my woman the same question, she replied "Yes, you are. The question is to which you belong to."
So I guess I have to elaborate my life a little. This evening, when I have the time and a beer, I will write some stories down.
antikristuske: were there any estonian subcultural bands during soviet times?
Platapus: there is definitely a bdsm subsulture, though this doesn't mean that anyone practicing it is a member of it.
MothBalls: You're mixing minority with subculture

- no offense, I respect your opinion