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Originally Posted by Safe-Keeper
Because he openly dislikes gays; it's that old "I don't mind them, just so long as they stay in the closet where I don't have to see them" deal. I have strong feelings that he would not find an inter-racial kiss-in or an Atheist Free Hugs Day nearly as irking.
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CSD and comparable freak shows give gays a bad name and do them a bad service. And as I repeatedly said in the past, many gays do not wish to be associated with these freak shows at all. As I also repeatedly said, I knew two gay students at university, we learned together sometimes. They both also expressed their disgust for these freaks (they called them freaks themselves, so who am I toban that term from usage). They wanted what you look right down to and find so alienating, apparently: they wanted to not make an issue of their orientation and wanted be left with the freedom and peace to live their private life like they want. Which is no problem for me at all. When I do not like the idea of my sex life being pulled and laid out in all public, why should most gay men or lesbian women be different in that attitude? The only reasons I can imagine are craving for recognition and self-dramatisation.
I also did not get an infectous gay-disease or herpes when those two and me made skin contact by shaking hands, or sharing the same bottle for drinking.
All I once got from them was a flu.
Not all gays crave for the public's spotlights and attention beign payed to their narcissistic self-dramatisation or because they take themselves so very important. I dare say that most gay men are not like that. CSD freaks to me are a minority - but a very loud and noisy one that forms the image of them all and gets qa lot of recognition, unfortunately..