I guess I was lucky, I was able to transfer to a civilian job that was almost exactly like what I was doing in the military. The only difference for me was that I had to wear a suit (everyone has a "uniform") and receive a little more than twice my pay.
But I realize that not everyone in the military can transfer so cleanly. That is one of the reasons I left EOD. Civilian jobs for EOD are limited.
If it is not too personal, can we ask what your concerns are? If you prefer to discuss this in PM, please feel free to PM me.
I would like to help if I can, baring that, I make a pretty good sounding board to bitch to.