Unlike some conditions that require transplant, it's not like you're SOL if you don't get one quickly. Dialysis sucks as a lifestyle, but it is done by many, and it will keep you alive until you're at the top of the list.
Best bet is to try and stay as fit as possible (being healthy is a plus for transplant placement—as does your age) and try to keep as good an outlook as possible.
Too bad about your family being jerky since they are a valuable source of spare parts
Best wishes.