It would seem that one reason that Tak is a mod is because he is more magnanimous than I -
If she can't make her mind up, either way... or needs 'time' to think things over, my advice to you is to get the hell out of dodge. Don't decide what to do based on what
she may or may not do or say, decide what to do based on what
you want - if it's making you feel bad then it's probably not right.
Don't waste your life on someone who's stringing you along for the attention, it's not worth it.
This doesn't mean you can't be friends still, if you can deal with that - I know I couldn't.
Beware of people who say one thing then do another. It's a dead give away and will only cause you grief if you have anything more than a passing acquaintance with them.
It's easy in these situations to let you heart rule your head. Don't.
Think and be a little ruthless with your feelings and you can save yourself more emotional trouble.
ps. giving advice is easy, following it is quite another matter 
I know this all too well for my liking.