Interesting development of this topic... Some of the earlier comments were thoughtful and proper (or so I thought).
However, as things moved on a pace, I'm drawn to the ignore button and the desire to make a parting cheap shot about how there's a third possibility when you consider yourself damned if you do and damned if you don't - it's because you're just damned, not by virtue of what you do or don't do, but because you
are.
Does that make sense? Well it seemed so to me.